Anonymous said: -whispers- I dunno if a relationship is what you'd want right now if it's causing you so much anxiety, perhaps instead you could do things you enjoy and not worry about it? but then again who am I to judge? I've only just turned 18 and realised recently that I've basically no interest in being in a relationship of any sort, let alone one of a sexual nature (I think you're lovely btw)
Thank you for your words, kind anon. I’ve mainly been using tumblr as a venting post because too many people on other social media platforms know me personally. There is a certain amount of anonymity here.
It comes down to: I’ve been single for a long, long time and have been getting mixed signals from someone I could absolutely see myself with.
In general, I do what I want and don’t give another thought to things like this.
Relationships are very personal, you’re right. I have wonderful, fulfilling friendships, just sometimes I crave more. 98% of the time, I’m fine with being single. I can live without sex and intimacy, sure, but sometimes it would be nice.
Honestly, I think it’s a great strength-builder to learn about yourself alone rather than as a part of a couple.
I wouldn’t say I’m all that anxious, per se, just a bit impatient.
And thank you for your sweet compliment!
So, I see all these classifications for sexuality on here. What’s it called when a guy shows interest but then won’t call you back and you sit there fantasizing about him and feeing like a pariah in equal turns?
Basically, what is it called when you have zero luck? Like mid-thirties-but-have-only-had-one-boyfriend-and-that-was-ten-years-ago-and-he-cheated-on-you-and-dating-is-awkward-and-you-just-want-someone-to-kiss-you-this-decade…
that one ship that makes your entire body and soul hurt when you think about it
Yeah her name’s Serenity.